Altruism or Power? Social Justice is Proving to be an Unmitigated Disaster

Oscar Wilde once said, “Everything in the world is about sex, except sex. Sex is about power.” As a therapist, I have often had a front-row seat to the power struggle within marriages revolving around sex. Sex in a marriage can actually be an effective barometer for the healthiness of marriage and the potential longevity and durability of a marriage. When a couple has good sex because they love each other or because they both see sex as a method and a vehicle for bonding, love and closeness, that couple is more likely to weather…